The Marshmallow Test

The Marshmallow Test

When you think about yourself today and sometime in the future, which of the circle pairs below best depicts how you see yourself? Second question – how are those New Year’s resolutions going? I ask because a Walter Mischel, of The Marshmallow Test:...
Love and Marriage Blog #5 – Two Personalities, One Shared Life

Love and Marriage Blog #5 – Two Personalities, One Shared Life

Megan and Michael were looking a good deal more relaxed at their next appointment. “Good news!” Megan started off, “We talked with all the parents, and much to my surprise, Michael’s mother was more than willing to cut the guest list once we explained our reasoning...
Love and Marriage Blog #4 – The Four Bank Accounts for a Happy Marriage

Love and Marriage Blog #4 – The Four Bank Accounts for a Happy Marriage

Megan and Michael returned the following week with a file folder full of brochures and an excel spreadsheet called “Wedding.” “We went to six different places,” Michael said, gesturing to the folder. “Everything from hotels to specialty wedding venues to halls. There...
Love and Marriage Blog #3 – Finding the Right Ratio

Love and Marriage Blog #3 – Finding the Right Ratio

The next time we got together, Michael and Megan had done their homework. Their combined figures showed that Michael was making $42,000 a year and Megan was earning $55,000. Their total monthly take-home pay was $6,228. Target Percentage Target $ on Combined After-tax...